COACHING SERVICE FOR SPEAKERS
I’m a coach.
What kind of coach? To answer that question, here are two more questions.
Do you get nervous ahead of a presentation at work? Do you get extremely nervous ahead of a wedding speech?
I’m sure you know those nerves are absolutely normal; almost inevitable, in fact. But did you know they are also helpful?
Through my coaching, you can learn how to tap into the energy that you can get from those nerves, to make your speech more compelling and more memorable.
“When I feel that fear coming, I say to myself: ‘there it is! It’s like petrol.’ You can get massive energy from it.” (Dame Judi Dench)
WEDDINGS BOOK PUBLISHED
My book The Wedding Speech Handbook is now available. The fastest way to get it is from Amazon, in both paperback and Kindle form. You’ll find a link in the sidebar.
The paperback is also available to order from all good bookshops, including Foyles and Waterstones. Its ISBN is 978-1-9993442-0-7. (That’s not the Amazon edition, in case the bookshop asks.)
The cover design features a cartoon by David Lewis, showing a best man who’s clearly a wannabe standup comedian. He’s having fun, oblivious to the horrified reactions of the rest of the top table: a familiar wedding speech pitfall.
GENERAL GUFF ABOUT ME
I’m a septuagenarian who devotes his so-called ‘Third Age’ to a so-called ‘portfolio career’ (acknowledgements to Charles Handy) drawing on personal and professional experience.
I write nonfiction. My first book Back to the Black (first edition 2010, second edition 2015) was about a financial crisis I had in the ’90s and what I learned from it.
My second, The Wedding Speech Handbook, was published in 2018. It drew on my experience of public speaking, and of training and coaching speakers, over the preceding 40 years; and on the pleasure of giving the Father of the Bride speech at my elder daughter’s wedding in 2017.
I spend some of my time coaching. I particularly like to help people who need to perform ‘on stage’ from time to time, whether that means a theatre stage, a conference platform or, more usually, the top table at a wedding.
MORE GUFF ABOUT ME
A native of Haverfordwest in Pembrokeshire, I spent my university years at Imperial College, London.
I then had a 25-year career in the chemical industry, eventually ending up as Managing Director of a sales and marketing company in the Swedish-owned Holmen group.
After my employer Holmen LignoTech, the chemicals division, was bought by Borregaard Industries of Norway, I left to set up and run a training consultancy, where I designed and delivered courses for major corporate clients in Norway, also some in Sweden, in business communication skills – e.g. how to deliver impactful presentations or run effective meetings – combined with polishing English-language competence. It was very gratifying that Borregaard, the competitor who’d initiated that change in my life by buying my former employer, trusted me enough to become my first client. They remained so for five years or so and also introduced me to other Norwegian organisations.
I then spent five years working with a major UK health charity; first in community fundraising and then as a media spokesman.
Nowadays I live in the great city of Bristol, in the West of England, avoiding retirement (I prefer the word ‘reinvention’) by working on a variety of projects.